About our Founders
Lisbet Blokdyk, Jacob and Jordan Cervantes
Confidence Creatorz Founders
As a mother of three beautiful children, I deeply understand the challenges and difficulties that come with their journey through childhood. This crucial stage is a time when their personalities are still developing, and they often find themselves in unfamiliar situations without knowing how to navigate them. Whether it's not being chosen for a team, missing out on a party invitation, or having an argument with a friend, these experiences shape their perception of the world, creating new connections in their developing brains.
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Unfortunately, those who struggle during this stage often develop negative thinking patterns, leading to feelings of insecurity, low self-esteem, lack of confidence, and even self-disgust. These emotions can manifest in behaviors such as acting out, academic decline, social isolation, or turning to substances. As adults, we might dismiss these challenges as just a part of childhood, but they can deeply impact how children perceive themselves and the world around them.
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As a parent, I sometimes felt powerless while trying to guide my children through these formative years. I couldn't help but wonder what happened to my once carefree and happy babies who now seemed burdened with stress. I observed their personalities change and their enthusiasm for life diminish. As an adult, I knew that these awkward growing pains would eventually pass, as I had experienced them myself. However, I also knew that there were tools and strategies I had used that could assist them.
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I soon realized that my children were not the only ones facing these challenges. Speaking to their friends, I heard similar stories of stress and uncertainty. They didn't know how to manage their emotions, and their only coping mechanisms seemed to be hiding in video games, TV shows, or music
With a strong sense of urgency, Confidence Creatorz was born.
Alongside my sons Jacob and Jordan, who played integral roles in its creation. Their youthful perspectives, creative inputs, and passion for helping others were invaluable in shaping the activities and lessons that promote resilience and empower young minds. They actively participated in designing crafts and activities that fostered self-esteem, encouraged problem-solving, and nurtured a positive mindset.
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As part of Confidence Creatorz, Jacob and Jordan also took on leadership roles, assisting in teaching and guiding children through the craft projects. Their involvement created a safe and supportive environment where children felt comfortable expressing themselves and learning from one another. The impact of Jacob and Jordan's contributions has profoundly affected our young students, inspiring them to give back to the community.
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Recognizing the urgency of equipping children with essential life skills early on, my objective became helping them embrace their true selves, no matter what challenges they faced, and enabling them to feel proud of who they are. This mission led me to develop Confidence Creatorz.
Lisbet Blokdyk, Jacob and Jordan Cervantes
Confidence Creatorz Founders
After researching and learning about the power of neuroplasticity of the brain, I became convinced that it was possible to help my children develop the skills they needed to thrive and overcome adversity. I also discovered the benefits of arts and crafts activities for children’s mental health, including improving mood, reducing stress, and anxiety, and enhancing cognitive function.
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Confidence Creatorz is built on these principles and utilizes the scientific understanding that our brains function like complex computer systems, as repeatedly proven by neuroscience. Renowned neuroscientist Dr. Daniel Siegel proposed that although our brains tend to lean toward negativity, they are always striving for harmony and meaning. Every experience and stimulus that enters our awareness triggers intense cognitive activity as our brains seek to appraise and integrate this new information into our working memory. The key finding was that "neurons that fire together wire together." Through dedicated practice, we can solidify new neural circuits and create lasting changes in our brains, transforming a fleeting mental state into a fundamental aspect of our mindset.
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In his book "The Power of Neuroplasticity," Dr. Shad Helmstetter highlights how our brains continually grow and change based on the feedback we provide. What we tell our brains has a direct impact on its rewiring process. As our brain rewires itself, it reinforces these new programs and self-perceptions, creating a continuous feedback loop. This ongoing assimilation eventually shapes our unique identities as individuals.
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In Confidence Creatorz, we leverage these intricate brain systems to foster lasting transformation in each child. We thoughtfully design our workshops to establish healthier beliefs, impart valuable coping skills, and cultivate personal resilience. We teach mindfulness, promote self-awareness, encourage positive affirmations, nurture healthy friendships, and we do it all through play. Our hour-long workshops incorporate music, art, crafts, games, and learning, providing children with incredible tools while they enjoy themselves and develop lifelong habits that can profoundly impact their lives.
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Now, more than ever, our children need these tools. Allow us to be your partner in guiding them toward becoming the best versions of themselves. I invite you to explore our in-person or virtual workshops and keep an eye out for our subscription boxes coming soon. Together, let's empower our children for a brighter future.
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With love,
Lisbet Blokdyk, Jacob and Jordan Cervantes